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Problems with Relationships among ColleaguesIt can happen very quickly that you fall in love with a colleague. It is undoubtedly the place where you spent most of your life-time. If you already are in a steady relationship, falling in love and its reciprocation alone are a problem. But even if both partners are single it is not easy to have a relationship with someone you work with. Most bosses don't like relationships amongst colleagues. They fear that as soon as there are problems within the relationship, those problems could effect work in a negative way. Plus: colleagues like to babble.A couple has to be very strong to stand up to this babble and the rumours that will spread very quickly. A love relationship at work seldom stays a secret. Very quickly it becomes something that everybody talks about and everybody comments on it and judges it. In the process of being told over and over again, the facts are often altered and thus mutilated. It is especially difficult for colleagues in different hierarchies to lead a love relationship within the office. People will think that the one in a higher rank is patronizing the other one, enabling him or her to rise within the hierarchy without the necessary professional qualification. The best way to steer clear of these things is to be very discreet about the relationship. Don't exchange sloppy kisses at work. The more normal and professional you behave at work the less people will speculate about your liaison. Then you will have the time to solve all the other problems. For example the problem that you have to develop a common basis for your relationship that is not work-related. Another problem could be the possibility that the couple will split up one day but still have to face their ex-partner" everyday at work. |
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